Disclaimer: I’m an adult, I use foul language and talk about adult topics. If you’re under 18, or are easily offended, you’d be better off finding one of the nice, polite, G-rated blogs out there. Disney probably has a blog, you could go there.
I’ve been blogging for a while. I was on blogger for… five years and recently made the jump over here to WordPress. There’s a lot of history and I’m not going to try and fill you in on all the sordid little details, but I can give you a highlight reel.
I was married to a cheating spouse for almost 10 years, the last two years evolved into an open relationship. As a very naive, idealistic, inexperienced young man from a small town the whole situation with Cat was insane. I felt like I had to constantly reevaluate my position on things, what I was comfortable with, and how relationships are supposed to work. To say that my horizons were expanded would be a major understatement. Toward the end of the marriage I was seeing three women at the same time. That was pretty awesome until one of their husbands found out… yeah, that’s long story that has been forever immortalized on my blog.
Cat and I divorced two years ago, we remain friends, she remarried and moved away.
It’s been a long road and a bumpy one, with lots of ups and downs. This blog is where I come to purge all of the craziness that happens in my life, to vent, to rail, to crow. I’m still cynical, I still drink too much and spend too many hours writing about how screwed up society is, how crazy women are, why relationships suck, or whatever else has pissed me off, made me think, or I think is funny. One moment I’ll be a bit of a hopeless romantic, the next I’ll tell a story about the best BJ I’ve ever gotten. The only aspect of my writing that is constant is that I’m scrupulously honest, I’ll smudge details and names to protect the guilty but otherwise I stick as close to the facts as possible. What’s the point of posting anonymously if you can’t tell the truth?
You can check out all my old posts at idsredbook.blogspot.com and stay tuned here for any updates.