I hadn’t planned on writing a part two but a couple readers seemed interesting in reading more, and one of them posed some interesting questions. So, I decided to write some more and see where it went.
In the last post I talked about some of the physical and mental aspects of sex, but what about everything that leads up to the actual act? What are turn ons? What are ways to seduce your spouse/partner (you should always be trying to seduce your partner)? How do you make them feel special?
I haven’t consciously thought about those things in a while, they’re things that we just do, not necessarily things that we put much thought into. Or, at least, I don’t. Most of this post will be pretty subjective, every person is different.
To me, one of the most important parts of a healthy sex life is making your partner feel appreciated. It’s such a simple, small thing, but it has a huge impact on having a happy, healthy relationship. A happy, healthy relationship is key to having a happy, healthy sex life. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander, or vice versa, if you know what I’ll mean. Continue reading