When I’m bored I check the WordPress posts tagged with “sex”, I can usually find something amusing, entertaining, or offensive.
I recently found this blog, Sierra Parker, that seems to be dedicated to promoting male chastity to increase intimacy in relationships.
This sounded unique, which made it interesting, so I checked it out.
It looks like the author’s theory is that some men are so focused on the physical aspect of sex that they don’t experience any other kind of intimacy in a relationship. So, if he becomes chaste he’ll have to focus on everything else instead of himself. She encourages physical closeness, even being sexual with your partner, but discourages the male orgasm.
She even mentions chastity belts that make arousal painful for men so that they avoid even thinking about sex or masturbation.
This is an interesting theory and might actually help some relationships. I could see guys that are so focused on getting their rocks off they don’t learn to enjoy the other aspects of a good relationship.
But the problem was, reading her blog was getting me all hot under the collar. Despite using more clinical terms like ejaculation, penis, clitoris, vagina, she was describing sex tips. Continue reading